Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

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  I am being shunned

  by Amyfa in

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  my best friend has returned to being a j.w.

  after not going for 7 years.

  we had an argument because i dont agree with the shunning of any person by the whole congregation just because they don't want to be a j.w any longer.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Welcome. Sorry you're going through this as well. Very well said. Thanks for your direct and intelligent post.
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  You Are Much Too Harsh About The Watchtower Society

  by The wanderer in

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  you always received good.

  grades in school; we always did our best to feed, clothe and give you every-.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  I'd say in response everything that everyone else wrote here, in fact I did--to my parents when they wrote some of this same crap to me. All the "How can you treat your daughter this way"s have not made them into kind, thinking people. Sympathy to you.
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  A Thread for us Screwed-Up People

  by Mincan in

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  "i was in the jehovah's witness cult you see, and that contained my social constructs well.

  f*** that, now i'm free.

  now my worldview has changed radically in the fundamentals, however, the orbital satellite things remain constant.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Dude, life IS finding your way through it. Everyone around you is only doing their best, not necessarily right or wrong. Be a little less hard on yourself and enjoy life. Use your experience as a Hoho as a lesson to accept everything and everyone around you without judgment.

  You've got your sh*t together more than you realize.
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  what's your funniest Borat scene or line?

  by lost_soul in

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  you either loved or hated borat...... what was your most memorable scene or favorite line?.

  i dunno, but the "dis soot is black pause not" sticks to you.

  but the story about brother bilo "crazy crazy, you will never get dis"..... .

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  At work, when someone has a customer one the lot, from a distance we say, "open hood show him pussy magnet yes."

  When we sell a car, it is "High five great success."
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  stop think replies

  by bigdreaux in

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  i have an idea.

  who wants to roll play?

  most of us here were witnesses at one point.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  We're in. Sounds great, would be helpful to a few people I hope.
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  Scan of the latest WT "Questions From Readers"!!!

  by deaconbluez in

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Priceless! Keep them coming!
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  On fading

  by lola28 in

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  so i was thinking about this today and wanted to see what you guys think about fading?

  for a long time i thought that this was the way to go especially if you wanted to maintain certain relationships be it with family or friends but lately i'm not so sure that fading is the best way to go and here is why.. the stress of having to go to meetings is some times overwhelmingthe amount of time you waste going to meetings when you no longer believe is time you will never get back, time that could have been spent doing something that you really do love, life is short why waste it in the hall?

  the end results are the same if you are dfed, daed or fade.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  You gotta play it like you need to I think. What you say is all true. We faded from the local cong, and because we're out of state from family and close old friends we were able to keep up appearances to them via email and phone for over a year. It was tough.

  They play games with you, you know, to test you, "how about that recent wt article on some inane topic that we're now experts on". "Yes yes, it was fabulous, I love the wt and Joe and the flower pots at the KH. Do you remember that time we were all in a drama 30 years ago? I so love dramas. In the new world we will have dramas and play with lions. Too bad for the apostates."

  The family was always checking to see if we were worthy of their association by asking if we were attending, and we finally told them we were through with it--so if/when you do it be prepared to be verbally attacked in the worst possible way and divorced by parents & siblings. It is sad sometimes, to mourn losing family and friends but it's a relief to be open. We haven't DA'd.
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  Has your brain been re-wired with the "F" word?

  by Gregor in

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  i learned an interesting fact from my father's doctor when he was being treated for a stroke.

  mom had mentioned that even though dad couldn't speak well enough to ask for a glass of water he could clearly say, "goddammit".

  the dr. explained that epithets are from a different part of the brain and this area had not been affected by the stroke.. i found this very interesting.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  I wonder if that's the same part of brain that makes someone with Tourette's Syndrome curse, when they don't usually.

  What the f**k.
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  How would your respond?

  by Billzfan23 in

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  i received the following from an elder in a nearby congregation that i was just disfellowshipped from:.

  hey, .

  i saw your wife at the special assembly day; she didnt mention you and didnt want to talk, so i just let her go.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Can't fault a person for trying to sound nice, he sounds like a person who wants to practice the preaching. Problem is he thinks that they have a fix for all that is broken, and you're not broken.
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  Goodbye, my sweet sister

  by sweetface2233 in

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  i was raised as a witness and have been miserable for my entire existence.

  i have hated every moment of it.

  after about 10 years of struggling, i decided 2 years ago that i was done w/ the charade and wasn't going to return to the meetings.

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Sweetface, I'm so sorry about your sister, about what she said to you. I can't tell you that she didn't mean what she said, that she'll take it all back and everything will be ok with her. They are completely brainwashed, these JW relatives of ours just barely resemble the people we once knew and loved. You'll deal with this in the right way for you, I and others have had to force ourselves to grieve for our JW family as though they've died. All I can say is, Give yourself plenty of slack during this emotional ordeal, and remember that you've done nothing wrong, remember the good times and stay busy, make new friends.

  My dad just left me a message on the 4th. I won't call him back, I've blocked their email address because they can't say anything decent to me-to them 'I look horrible, I must be on drugs'-it's like he and my mom have died and I'm being haunted by their ghosts. I want to call him back to say that he doesn't have the right to 'check up on me', he gave that right up, and it hurts because we were close.

  Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you're here.

  catfish